Happy birthday E.!

20 years!! you are no longer a teenager E., it's time to be a man ;) what is a man? a man is someone who knows what he wants and doesn't apologize for achieving his goals. a man is someone who gets things done. he is the center of his group, the alpha male. he does not seek for approval, instead he lives by his own standards and is not affected by any outside turmoil. he is someone who knows how to hold and present himself in every situation. he is a coldblooded killer and he is a gentleman. he is a ferocious Samurai warrior as well as an emotional and tender lover. he is congruent; his actions mirror his beliefs. he doesn't get caught up in irrelevant forms of drama. he doesn't lose his coolness. when everyone else panics, he stays calm and makes things happen. he has a strong believe-system and a powerful mindset. he is in control of situations and protects the ones he loves.

A man should be living his life to the fullest. he must become a leader. but he shouldn't become blind for his own flaws. therefore, a good leader must be able to follow as well. it is this kind of man that i'm talking about. the kind of man who is charming, charismatic, who inspires others and who respects his family, friends and lovers. he communicates cleverly and clearly. he has a high social status and he just 'gets it'. he is able to read others and help them in any way he can. when he interacts, he doesn't solely focus on the verbal aspect; he analyzes the tone of voice and reads the body language. he is a man of humor and practical jokes and he knows how to make people feel safe, secure and how to make them laugh ;). he attracts women because he reads and speaks the secret language of sexual communication. it is this man who is not afraid to sexually please a highly attractive girl and to fulfill all her needs and wants. it is the same man who is a lover as well as a provider. he stands with a strong posture and he is the main actor of his world. he does not walk on the surface of the earth, instead; the world is moving underneath his feet when he walks. he strives for success in all area's of life and he makes himself a valuable asset to the lives of others.

Intelligence, wisdom, dominance, confidence, high levels of energy, masculinity, determination, authenticity and fearlessness are all characteristics that he owns. more importantly, he knows how to display them and he always tries to develop them to a higher level. he is a man of great fortune. not because he is 'lucky', but because he sees opportunities and acts accordingly to MAKE his own luck. what does it take to become this type of man? it is a long and never-ending process of rising and falling. 20 years ago you were given a chance to become a real man. you already achieved MANY great things and like i said in my previous blog, i foresee even greater things happening for you in the future. grand things.

Happy birthday E.!!!

Family dinner at Japan Inn (yes J., you have become part of the family ;P)
Excellent yakitori!!!

Having a drink at Leidseplein.

Super sandwich

Pleasure comes in many different forms. you can get pleasure from watching a good movie or listening to nice music. you can get pleasure from having a smooth social interaction with an attractive girl and even more pleasure from having wild sex with that same girl.

As humans, we find pleasure in complicated concepts such as love, fulfillment, self-actualization and happiness. Leonardo Da Vinci once said that "the noblest pleasure in life is the joy of understanding".

Be that as it may, pleasure can be as simple as eating a baguette with green pesto, avocado, fried eggs, grilled ham and mozzarella cheese, topped with salt and pepper.

Don't be fooled by appearances, pleasure comes in many different forms ;)

X A.

Energy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We went to the cinema

Then we played pool at Club Smokey

All nice and fun, but then.....

;)

Ahhh i really wish you would see it with your own eyes.... we went to Jantje's Verjaardag and what was so special about it: i fell in love with the world's nicest dancer!!! it takes two to tango and we were dancing in the style of Grease/Dirty Dancing! but not dancing like dancing, i mean DANCING!!!!! we gave a SHOW!! it's not a joke: people were checking us out from ALL OVER the club! we were the entertainment of the night.. later i even heard that while we were dancing, the DJ said through the microphone: 'look at that couple on the dancefloor'.. i'm not exaggerating: in my life i danced with many many many MANY girls, but never in my life did i dance with such an energetic and spontaneous dancer like tonight!! and what is the funniest thing of all: most girls don't know how to dance, so normally in clubs i don't dance much myself. i usually play Frank T.J. Mackey (i must stick to whatever works for me ;). but this girl is probably the first girl since.. EVER.. who could really dance! she made a huge impression on me.. we did a crazy choreography and it all fitted perfectly!! we were flowing and bouncing, she was jumping on me, i was catching her in the air and the whole thing looked as if it's a musical! i liked it that this girl was dominant and she was playing with me and she was provocative and challenging me in front of everyone. by far the best thing about it was 'the look' in our eyes, the way how we looked at each other.. we had this intense and sexual look as if we were going to devour each other... i could go on and on about this girl and how chill she is (not many girls are like this): she could really be my friend instead of only the one-night-stand.. and i'm not just saying this based solely on the dancing..

You were amazing! and i know you also had a great time ;)
And like i said: if it was meant to be, than faith will bring us back together.

XXX A.