No joke!

No joke: yesterday was fun!

No joke: always next level chilling

No joke: always carpe diem

No joke: it's going down on 1 April 2010!

To be continued...

A.

Knowing black L&B

So we went to the cinema, but i'm not here to give a movie review. instead i tell you to watch this movie with your own eyes.

Ow yesss, before i forget it: i invented an all new pick-up method that is guaranteed 100% effective to impress a girl!!! if you wanna learn it, let me know and i'll give you the numbers of my bank account ;)

After the movie we went to a place where emotions can change within seconds ;). thanks for choosing 'black'! i knew you would bring me luck ;). for those of you who know what i mean; know when to quit.. for those who don't know what i'm talking about.. i'll take you there next time so you can feel it yourself.

To celebrate our victory we drank whiskey at a certified cafe that 'has been chosen as a great whiskey bar of the world for outstanding presentation, promotion and knowledge of great whiskeys from around the world' *
let me tell you, we spend true quality time at cafe L&B and we had the one eye-opener after the other :)
If you read this and you were there; nothing but love! if you read this and you were not there.. ask yourself this.. why weren't you there? why weren't you here chilling with us? do you have more important things to do? ;)

All i can say is that i love spending time with wise and warm people and that is why i liked it today with you!

x A.

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Sunny day @ Leidse

The prestige

Yesterday i was in a cafe with my friend. we were just chilling, having a good time. out of nowhere comes this filthy Irish tourist disturbing us. he and his friend were drunk as hell and they were coming in our aura, asking me if i can get cocaine for them (?). he was coming closer and i felt my adrenalin pumping. my friend was calming us down with humor. but i was ready to strike if only he made one wrong move. i stayed cool, so luckily for him nothing happened.
In the evening i went kickboxing with another friend, so i could let out my energy. it was a heavy training, i really needed it.

Today i purchased 3 books. i use the word 'purchased' because i didn't pay for it ;). of course now you may have a bad opinion about me and think i'm some sort of thief. i am not, the only thing i steal, are woman's hearts :) because the term 'stealing' is so broad that i just can not find a proper definition for it. would a homeless father who would steal bread for his children be considered a thief? his children -who don't know if they'll live another day- will see him as their savior.. hmm.. what defines a man? is a man a thief or a savior? can a thief be a savior? who was Robin Hood?

So like i said, i got myself 3 expensive university study-books for free. here's how it works: first you buy a book. after you paid for it and get the receipt, you put the book in your bag and the receipt in your wallet. next, you walk back to the shelf, take the same book again -a new one- and you walk with this book to the cashier and say that you want to bring this book back. you take the receipt of the other book that you bought earlier (the one that is now in your bag) and you ask for your money back. so in fact, you get money back for a book that you didn't even buy. you just need to have the receipt from the first book ;)

I did this little trick today 3 times :) personally i love doing things like this: you do some stuff. some work, some fail. you do more of what works. if it works good, others will quickly copy it. then you do something else. the trick is the doing something else ;)

(K)

"Not all readers are leaders, but all leaders are readers"

Yesterday was the first time since ages that i got up early in the morning. it was miserable as hell. i am a night person and normally i go to bed around 3.00 in the night and i wake up around 13.00 in the afternoon. yesterday i had to get up at 6.30 and my whole cycle was messed up. i couldn't sleep and at 4.00 i was still dancing in my bed.
the reason i had to get up at this ridiculously early moment in time, was because i had exam.
it was about marketing and persuasive communication. i have a good feeling about it and i'm sure i passed it.
As a matter of fact, i was so happy that i went with a friend to the shopping center. i was looking for new shoes (work-shoes for Escape). i didn't find good ones, but i bought a leather jacket and a nice shirt. actually i already had the same shirt, but i bought the same one again because i like it so much.

When i woke up today, the first thing i did was checking the online exam-results and guess what: out of the 40 questions i answered 37 correctly. it seems that exams nowadays are getting more and more easy. or am i just getting smarter and smarter? hmm.. ;) i told you that studying pays off.. don't study hard; study smart ;)
At 15.30 i went to the center again with another friend. first we were shopping, then took a coffeeshop, did a J., drank a cup of tea and played a game of chest. after that, we did what we came to the center for: reading a book in the library. the library is a perfect place to chill and read a book in peace. we stayed there for about 3 hours. i got wiser there and i really must do it more often. its exactly like the British politician Joseph Addison once said: "reading is to the mind what exercise is to the body." so i recommend all you lazy fools to gain some knowledge and read a book. life is too short to stay ignorant.

Yesterday was a fun day!

I woke up yesterday morning and i felt it would be a good day. the sun was chirping and the birds were shining. after i ate breakfast, i went to the bookstore and i bought the book 'Liefhebben' (To love). its not a book about about romance, but about how to reach 'supernatural sexuality'. basically its a book about how to improve your sex life/sex skills or however you wanna call it. not that i necessarily need improvement, but i think that one is never old enough to learn ;).
i bought this book with coupons that i won at my university. there was a kind of 'contest' and you could win 20 euro book-coupons. the contest was about knowledge of literature and you had to use the knowledge you had about books and authors and then create your own 'point of view'. of course i knew how to impress the girl who was the judge and she told me i was the winner and within 15 minutes i got my 20 euro coupons ;)

So like i was saying, i bought this book about sex (one of my favorite subjects) and after that i did a good deed for my brother. you see, because i'm a student i get a student-travel-card and i can use public transportation for the entire year for free. my brother doesnt have this card. so what i did, i went to the post-office to say that my card was stolen (of course it was not stolen, but i also want my brother to be able to use buses for free ;). i had to fill out a document, but i didnt know that i needed an official police stamp. so i headed to the police station and i asked for a stamp. initially they didnt wanna give me this stamp, because first i had to file a report or some shit. luckily for me, the officer in duty happened to be a female and i gave her my puppy-eyes-look :P. within 15 minutes i left the police station with a stamp on my document ;)

Later that evening i went to the cinema with one of my girlfriends. even tough the movie was not in my top-10, i enjoyed the time that i was spending there :D

hahaha the movie was really bad, but we drank 4 Smirnoff Ice so it got a bit better :P

After this delightful piece of craftsmanship, we went to De Kroon, a lounge spot next to Club Escape. we drank 4 Baileys and had nice conversations. i really enjoyed my time there, also because we spend it in a nice atmosphere.

When i came home and drank my third glass of Disaronno Originale, i was contemplating about my day. even tough my day was so nice, i cant stop thinking about my girlfriend... i almost went to Warsaw yesterday, but it feels so wrong because nothing is in place. i don't feel that i'm wanted there and i don't think that by going there, i will be able to put things in place. if only i felt that by going there, i could fix all problems, i already would be there by now. going there is not the solution.

My father once told me 'don't fight a battle when you know you'll not win'. i know that I'll not win this battle. (and i deliberately say 'battle', not 'war') because a battle can only be won if you master the situation and if luck is on your side... i don't own the situation, nor am i lucky...

I just need ONE opportunity, one real chance, one shot, one good card...

For now, its out of my hands and i can only await the move of the hands of time.

for what is time, if there is no love?
without love there is no life...
my life is you,

only you.

New year party @ my place

It's now already 3 days ago and this is my first moment of relaxation. now i can finally write about my new year.

31 December 2008: at 11.00 my lil' brother called me and said: 'listen man, we should really do something crazy tonight. i dont wanna spend new year doing nothing'. of course i was still asleep and said: 'yeah man you're right'. and than he told me to call some people and said that we would give a party at our place tonight. i said; 'yeah man you're right' :P and we hang up the phone. i called some people -i called my friend G. and 5 girls and i said that there would be a party tonight at my place.
at 16.00 we started organizing things and purchasing things for the party. i say 'purchasing' because we didn't buy it ;) all i can say is that the self scanners at Albert Heijn are a blessing and basically we purchased € 500 on alcohol - A LOT OF ALCOHOL-, drinks, chips, pizzas etc. and we paid a total of € 75. God bless AH.

We stashed it on the balcony in my mothers house
where the party would take place later on ;)

At 20.00 we went to my fathers house where we would celebrate the countdown. we didnt do much, just some quality time with family (playing cards, playing chest, eating nice new year food etc.) at 24.00 we hugged each other and wished each other all the best for 2009...
it was in this moment when i could cry, because my girlfriend wasnt with me...
i'll tell you in time more about my girl, but what it comes down to is that she lives in Poland, Warsaw, and we have a long distance relation for 2 years already. she is the love of my live and i hate it that she couldnt be there with me.. i miss her.

(This is a picture of me and my sweety in Thailand, Koh Samui, Silver Beach)

But anyway, at 00.30 my father gave us a ride to my mother's house where the party would go on till 10.00 next morning :P hahaha the party was extremely well organized: we took the laptop downstairs with a tremendous sound system, the fireplace was on, the bottles were cold ;) and the party could begin. the first person came at 01.00 when i was still preparing myself and putting make up and all that shit ;). later, more guests came and when everyone was there (at 03.00) we were with 20 people. more people planned to come but they were drunk in Amsterdam center and didnt show up :P.

My brother and myself were the hosts of the night
and we made sure everyone had a marvelous time.

Not only did we drank, we also took the liberty to take some x. my other brother was in charge of the 'smoking area' (his room) :P all the smokers went to his room where they all used a LOT of weed/hash/vaporizer. that night he had more in his room than a coffeeshop.
later he also made food for all the guests. he made delicious salmon, very nice chicken with cocos, rice and some nice sauce.

Later that night T. was sleeping with me. she is so super sweet. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX