20 years!! you are no longer a teenager E., it's time to be a man ;) what is a man? a man is someone who knows what he wants and doesn't apologize for achieving his goals. a man is someone who gets things done. he is the center of his group, the alpha male. he does not seek for approval, instead he lives by his own standards and is not affected by any outside turmoil. he is someone who knows how to hold and present himself in every situation. he is a coldblooded killer and he is a gentleman. he is a ferocious Samurai warrior as well as an emotional and tender lover. he is congruent; his actions mirror his beliefs. he doesn't get caught up in irrelevant forms of drama. he doesn't lose his coolness. when everyone else panics, he stays calm and makes things happen. he has a strong believe-system and a powerful mindset. he is in control of situations and protects the ones he loves.
A man should be living his life to the fullest. he must become a leader. but he shouldn't become blind for his own flaws. therefore, a good leader must be able to follow as well. it is this kind of man that i'm talking about. the kind of man who is charming, charismatic, who inspires others and who respects his family, friends and lovers. he communicates cleverly and clearly. he has a high social status and he just 'gets it'. he is able to read others and help them in any way he can. when he interacts, he doesn't solely focus on the verbal aspect; he analyzes the tone of voice and reads the body language. he is a man of humor and practical jokes and he knows how to make people feel safe, secure and how to make them laugh ;). he attracts women because he reads and speaks the secret language of sexual communication. it is this man who is not afraid to sexually please a highly attractive girl and to fulfill all her needs and wants. it is the same man who is a lover as well as a provider. he stands with a strong posture and he is the main actor of his world. he does not walk on the surface of the earth, instead; the world is moving underneath his feet when he walks. he strives for success in all area's of life and he makes himself a valuable asset to the lives of others.
Intelligence, wisdom, dominance, confidence, high levels of energy, masculinity, determination, authenticity and fearlessness are all characteristics that he owns. more importantly, he knows how to display them and he always tries to develop them to a higher level. he is a man of great fortune. not because he is 'lucky', but because he sees opportunities and acts accordingly to MAKE his own luck. what does it take to become this type of man? it is a long and never-ending process of rising and falling. 20 years ago you were given a chance to become a real man. you already achieved MANY great things and like i said in my previous blog, i foresee even greater things happening for you in the future. grand things.
Happy birthday E.!!!
Family dinner at
Japan Inn (yes J., you have become part of the family ;P)
Excellent
yakitori!!!
